Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Happy Hump Day!

It's Wednesday- or hump day as I like to call it. I'm looking forward to the weekend- especially since I have Monday off for the President's Day holiday! Love those 4 day weekends!

Ally and I have survived without Matthew for 8 days now- which makes this officially the longest period of time we have been apart since Ally's birth. We're managing okay, but we really miss him. Ally has been going through another really rough patch with her bottle and isn't getting the recommended daily amount of liquids. It's really stressful for me and it is just so much easier to have someone around to share in the frustration. We have another appointment with her GI specialist on Friday afternoon so hopefully we'll get some answers.

We had a nice day yesterday- we played hookey from work and day care (sort of) to visit with my good friend Lisa who came to visit us. I checked email and voicemail regularly and did some work at home in the afternoon so it wasn't a complete hookey day. Lisa came in town on Monday night, hung out with Ally and I, ate dinner with me and spent the night. On Tuesday morning we relaxed some more and went to get brunch at a local restaurant once Ally got up from her nap. It was great to have some adult conversation and a drink together. Thanks for coming Lisa!

One last bit of happy news- I've had two people at work tell me that I'm looking good this week! I've lost 10.5 pounds since I started Weight Watchers again last month and I guess it's really starting to show. I'm excited and motivated to keep going!

And finally- here are a few pictures to cap off this post. Enjoy!

Ally is fascinated by Angus' feet. She loves to play with his toenails and to pull on his dew claws. Thankfully he doesn't seem to mind too much!

She can pull up on the furniture now!

Silly ham!

She can reach lots of new things now that she can pull up! Of course she has to taste test them all!

Mo & Goose miss their daddy.

I took this picture on Sunday morning b/c Ally woke up with crazy hair. You can't really tell, but it was sticking out all over the place. I had to dunk her under the faucet to fix it for church!

Here Comes Trouble

This was a total accident. We normally keep Ally's activity table on the rug so it doesn't slide but she pulled up on it while it was on the hardwood. As it started to slide away she started walking after it! I was so surprised but I recovered quickly enough to grab the camera and start filming. Matthew was so excited to see the video but a little disappointed that he missed it. I think she'll wail until he gets home before she starts walking independently but a the rate she's going- who knows? In the past week alone she's started cruising around objects, pulling up on anything she can get her hands on and sort of walking! She is such a joy to watch!

Beach Pictures

As promised, here are the pictures my friend Sarah took at the beach on Sunday- I love the one of Ally & Hal- aren't they adorable?
Thanks Sarah!















Saturday, February 7, 2009

Nice Weekend

Ally and I have had a surprisingly nice weekend thanks to some good friends- old and new. We had a play date on Friday afternoon with a few new friends that I met through the squadron. Ally was the oldest child and the only girl. She had a great time playing with toys that weren't hers (always more exciting that the same old ones at the house) and I had a nice lunch and some adult conversation. It was a win-win situation!

On Friday night our friends Bonnie and Dean came over for dinner. I'm sure they probably had something more exciting that they could have been doing on a Friday night, but they were kind enough to hang out with me instead. It was great to have some company and and to spend an evening at the table instead of parked in front of the television.

Saturday was a beautiful day and I was fortunate enough to have made plans to meet my friend Marissa in Williamsburg for lunch. She lives in Richmond and Williamsburg is a great meeting point for us since it's about the same distance for both of us. We had lunch at one of my favorite places- The Cheese Shop (yummy sandwiches!) and then we walked around and did some window shopping. We found a nice grassy spot in the Colonial part of Williamsburg to soak up some of the sunshine. Ally thought it was pretty great to crawl around and eat a bunch of sticks & leaves!

Me and Ally enjoying the sunshine in Williamsburg
Ally & Marissa
Ally with one of the many leaves she tried to jam into her mouth.

On Sunday we went to church and had lunch afterwards with Bonnie & Dean at Panera- yummy! The weather was amazing- it reached 73 degrees yesterday and I had a major case of spring fever so we called up my friend Sarah and agreed to meet up with her for a walk outside. Her son Hal and Ally are only three weeks apart so it's really fun to see them together. We even stopped at the beach at the end of our walk but it started to get cool as the sun was going down so we didn't stay long. Ally hasn't been in the sand since September and she was much more interested in it this time around. She kept grabbing handfuls of it and trying to figure out what it was. I didn't have my camera- shocker!- but Sarah had hers and she took some really cute pictures of the kids. She's supposed to send me some tonight so I'll post them tomorrow.

That pretty much sums up the weekend. Only 8 more days until Ray & Dee come back in town, only 14 more days until my parents arrive for a visit, and only 18 more days until Matthew comes home! So much to look forward to....

P.S. For anyone that read my blog post about my icky sicky day- I'm am officially not pregnant. Yet.







Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Bye Bye Baton

Matthew deployed yesterday for a 3.5 week work up tour on the USS Baton. http://www.bataan.navy.mil/default.aspx It was hard to see him go and I had that familiar tightness in my chest all day and all night yesterday. Thankfully the first day is behind us now and it gets progressively easier as we all get used to our altered routines. Ally was a bit of a terror yesterday and refused to nap all day long but thankfully she slept well last night and seems to be back on track this morning. I have some fun stuff planned for us over the next few weeks- a few visits with friends and some play dates so hopefully we'll be able to make the time pass quickly.
I just wish Matthew were as lucky. His new job on the Baton is going to keep him very busy and pretty sleep deprived. In addition to his regular duties he's on a watch rotation for the entire 3.5 week work up where he is on for 5 hours then off for 10, on for 5, off for 10. In those 10 hours off he's got to get his regular job done, eat, sleep, work out, etc. He's learning first hand that the life of an aviator is quite different than that of a SWO.
That's really about all the news I have this morning. I finally got over that bug on Monday night and have been feeling fine since so the worst seems to have past- thankfully!
In other random news, my friend Christine- whose hilarious blog I follow daily- and her husband Tony just had their baby this morning! Welcome to the world little Greyson- can't wait to see your first photos posted on blogger for all to 'awwwww' over! Congratulations guys- I'm so happy for you!

Monday, February 2, 2009

Icky Sicky

Being a mommy while you're sick really stinks. I learned this lesson the hard way yesterday. I had a headache all day Saturday and was fighting a cold that I picked up in Florida. I was coughing so much on Saturday night that I left the bed and went to sleep on the couch so I wouldn't disturb Matthew. When I woke up on Sunday I felt really lousy but the Ally monster was up & ready to go so I put on my game face and proceeded with our normal routine. I powered through the early morning but as we were getting ready to leave for church I got really nauseous. I should have stayed home but like a stubborn idiot I decided to go anyway. About half way there I remembered that I signed us both up to work in the nursery that day! I hope whatever I have isn't contagious- I'd feel terrible if I infected a whole bunch of babies & toddlers! I held it together until we got home then I really fell apart. After praying to the porcelain god for a few minutes I got Ally cleaned up and put down for a nap. She was kind enough to sleep for a whopping 45 minutes during which time I moaned and groaned in bed trying in vain to fall asleep and stop the pounding in my head and the churning in my stomach.

I should mention that we had a contractor at the house working on our deck this weekend. We're paying him by the hour but he reduces his rate when Matthew assists him so he was tied up all day long working on the deck leaving me to try to take care of myself & Ally. Fun, fun, fun!

I managed to stay upright long enough to feed Ally her lunch then I literally sprawled out on the living room floor and surrounded her with some toys. In between bouts of dry heaving I tried to entertain her from my prone position but I know she was wondering what the heck was wrong with mommy. Ally pooped twice during this time which required us both to crawl into the bedroom for diaper changes which induced more dry heaving. Lovely! After several hours of this I was able to put her down for a real nap where she slept for a blessed two hours during which time I dozed in bed, dry heaved some more, and downed my umteenth dose of Tylenol.

Fast forward to 5pm- Ally is awake and ready to eat again. I struggle through mixed veggies and pear pineapple purees- they do nothing to calm my stomach! I lay on the floor some more while she plays and finally give in to my bored child and push her around the house in her little car. Matthew finally finishes up with the deck and comes inside only to run straight out to Costco to load up on all the necessities that I wasn't able to get since I was feeling so crummy. He doesn't return until 6:45 at which point I turn Ally over to him so they can watch the Superbowl together while I make him some dinner since he hasn't eaten all day long. Browning ground turkey and cutting up onions is not an activity I recommend when you're feeling ill.

8pm- Matthew is fed, Ally is asleep and I decide to take a shower. Hot water works wonders and I get a bit of a second wind. I am able to lay in bed and talk to Matthew as he packs for his 3.5 week mini deployment.

I sleep pretty well and wake up feeling decent. Headache is just a dull throb and the nausea is gone for the time being so I decided to suck it up and come to work. Now it's all back full force and I'm struggling to get through the next hour and 15 minutes until I can go home. I'd really like to crawl back in bed, but I need to go to the grocery store and feed Ally before that will be an option. Please God, make it stop! I don't think I can handle another day like this- especially when Matthew is gone.

I have a fleeting memory of my mom being really sick one morning when I was going to school- I couldn't have been more than 5 or 6 and I think she was going through chemo at the time. My mom crawled around the kitchen making my lunch and insisted I go to school even though I wanted to stay home and take care of her. I'm in no way comparing a touch of stomach flu to chemo, but I have a new appreciation of what mommies will do for their kiddos- even when they're feeling awful!

Florida in Pictures

We made a trek to Florida last week for a wedding in Orlando and a visit to Matthew's parents new home in Tampa. The trip was easy- we've discovered that traveling within the same timezone makes it much simpler to stay on schedule and that a two hour plane ride is a cinch compared to a cross country journey! (don't worry Dad- we're still coming to San Diego for regular visits!)

Ally had lots of fun playing in this box in our hotel room in Orlando

She wasn't too excited about the pack & play when we first arrived so I let her nap in bed surrounded by lots of pillows.

Mommy and Ally got all dressed up for the wedding- black tie optional at the Ritz Carlton- fancy schmancy!

Look at all my teeth!

The Martins after the ceremony

Great pic of Ray & Dee
More Martins

Aside from the fact that my wrap is all messed up, this is a nice picture of the three of us!

Family dance

Ally with her grandparents at the wedding

Finally asleep in her stroller. Amazingly, she didn't wake up when the waiter spilled a glass of champagne on her! We had to wash her dress & her lovey because they smelled so bad!

Frank, Nick (the groom) and Matthew- a VMI reunion

Being silly at the Martin's place in Tampa

Grandma takes a turn feeding Ally- we're both convinced that if we open our mouths she'll open hers to eat!

Playing with new toys!

Daddy & Ally checking out the pool

Family in the pool- burr, it was cold!

Uh-oh- crawling towards the water already!

Admiring a gorgeous sunset with Mommy before dinner one night.
Sweet little Ally

Best picture of our trip- what a stunning background!

Back at home and happy to see her furry brothers!

Daddy's little monkey!